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Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Uncle Norman

3/16/09
I have a friend I call Uncle Norman.
He is about 10 years older than I am,
But I am also his Uncle David
- as we do address each other -;
I drove into his woods to see him this morning
And he didn’t appear at home.
For years I’ve always knocked and entered
The back door (behind him in this photo)
But since his wife Sunny died a year ago
And he lives alone
I haven’t been out there as much.
You would think the opposite would obtain
But it hasn’t;

I knocked and when Uncle Norm
Didn’t come to the door I cracked it open
And hollered in.
He didn’t answer, so I went inside and
Shouted some more, including up the stairs
To the bedrooms.
No answer, all quiet. Too quiet?

His car was in the drive;
Maybe he was out walking in the woods.
I took a seat and sipped the coffee
I came with.

Eventually, there was a sound from upstairs.
I hollered again up the stairwell.
Uncle Norm hollered back: “Who is it?”
I told him and he laughed
And said he'd been in the shower,
would be down.

He came down
Into the dining room
Where I was sitting
Next to the Night-Blooming Serius,
A favorite plant of Sunny’s she'd cultivated
over many years.
When it bloomed once,
we got called out to see and smell it.

Norm was in flannel boxers
And with a towel wrapped around
His hair, ‘sahib’ style,
He grinned a welcome.

We had a good talk
And then after about a half hour
I got up to leave,
And by his age-old habit he said he would
Walk me out to my car.
I believed Uncle Norm was
Glad I stopped in,
Like old times.

Both Norm and Sunny are artists.
Norm a painter and Sunny a potter and
Mushroom sketcher, clay sculptor
and woods sensitive.
Norm’s greatest heartache is
Not having Sunny to talk to anymore.

I met them in 1960.
Soon after we became each other’s uncles.
One of the things I really like about
Uncle Norman
Is that no matter what I may do,
And I’ve done some bad things,
He is always in my corner.
Like a friendly cork, floating
Over a temporarily sunk bottle.

He’s Norman, my uncle,
And my friend.








Saturday, November 9, 2013

Nuthatch (or Chickadee); A gentleman gathering; Unbeknownst; 30; + Radio






Nuthatch

What if a sleek, grey-feathered nuthatch
flew from a tree and offered to perch
on your left shoulder, accompany you

on all your journeys? Nowhere fancy,
just the brief everyday walks, from garage
to house, from house to mailbox, from
the store to your car in the parking lot.

The slight pressure of small claws
clasping your skin, a flutter of wings
every so often at the edge of vision.

And what if he never asked you to be
anything? Wouldn't that be so much
nicer than being alone? So much easier
than trying to think of something to say?


"Nuthatch" by Kirsten Dierking, from Tether. © Spout Press, 2013

This poem found on our daily check of the Writers Almanac Wednesday 11-6-13
- my wife's birthday -
reminded me of this:

The reference to 
"The slight pressure of small claws
clasping your skin, a flutter of wings"
brought a recall of the that feeling...
It was 1971 and I was
driving a Yellow cab in Milw for a living
but the photo was taken near Pembine WI

.......


A gentlemen's gathering last Sunday
morning at Panera's Restaurant in Ruby Isle, Brookfield WI
saw gray-haired well-traveled, cultured conversationalists doing 
their customary thing,
friends supporting each other in pleasant weekly pastime.

This day it was the day before one of the friends, Uncle Norman
(See: http://raccoonnews.blogspot.com/2009/03/uncle-norman.html)
was to close on the real estate sale of the land-grant family farm of his settler
great-grandfather
for the coming Walmart Super Center store at Greenfield and Moorland,
New Berlin, WI.

The farmhouse shown in the above post, where Norman has resided for many years
will come under the wrecking ball and bulldozer soon, and Norman will
relocate to an upscale New Berlin complex with graduated levels of care,
3 million dollars richer.
Norm's remaining land to sell was only 12 acres, but ideally situated.

I am trying to convince Norm to allow ace Freeman writer Darryl Enriquez
- who did not ask for such an assignment but would willingly undertake it -
to write this Rupnow side of the story on the big controversial Walmart sale, etc.

But so far Norm says, "That isn't my cup of tea."
He may change his mind.....I'm saying.

Norm misses his late wife and friend, Sunny,
who may be taking mystic sorties through those woods still.

http://raccoonnews.blogspot.com/2010/01/sunny.html



For this signal day, Norm and the boys were joined by Waukesha art figure Wis Guthrie
and yours truly.  Norm was sporting a fresh haircut.  He was his characteristic
droll 'will believe it when I see it' self.


Norm and Wis reminisced over their recollections of a Carroll College
field trip they took to England once upon a time, and how a few blase students
had to be prodded to get out of the tour bus to see the Stonehenge figures.


The Raccoon News, on assignment for this seemingly leisurely gathering,
saw the import of it and ran a copy of one of its photos to mail to
Uncle Norman, for his souvenirs.

It was done.

It was a beautiful warm and sunny day with blue skies and billowing white clouds.
Wis and I decided to have lunch at Christina's, back in Waukesha.

An overall delightful time was being had and we parted with a firm handshake
back at the Avalon where Wis resides.

.......

Unbeknownst to us,



- ? -

at church
- where we hadn't attended though it was our custom -
shocking word was circulating among the to be bemourned, knit congregation
that a young member, Kyle Kiser, met his own terminus
in northern Wisconsin in an auto accident
the preceding night.

.......

To this issue of the Saturday Raccoon, therefore,
we write an old-school journalist's

30

with sympathies to the beloved Kiser family.


Kyle

.......


Radio

from Writers Almanac 11-7-13


I left it
on when I
left the house
for the pleasure
of coming back
ten hours later
to the greatness
of Teddy Wilson
"After You've Gone"
on the piano
in the corner
of the bedroom
as I enter
in the dark

"Radio" by David Lehman, from New and Selected Poems. © Scribner Poetry, 2013




Teddy Wilson's After You've Gone
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=olJNZLXxZnU

Saturday, September 22, 2012

Return of HOT DAMN ! Band; Spider spins in a dewy web; William becomes handsome at 12; Indomitable vine; Etc.



HOT DAMN! BAND RETURNS
TO WAUKESHA FARMERS MARKET
SEPT. 29TH



...



Porch Swing in September

The porch swing hangs fixed in a morning sun
that bleaches its gray slats, its flowered cushion
whose flowers have faded, like those of summer,
and a small brown spider has hung out her web
on a line between porch post and chain
so that no one may swing without breaking it.
She is saying it's time that the swinging were done with,
time that the creaking and pinging and popping
that sang through the ceiling were past,
time now for the soft vibrations of moths,
the wasp tapping each board for an entrance,
the cool dewdrops to brush from her work
every morning, one world at a time.


"Porch Swing in September" by Ted Kooser, from Flying at Night. © University of Pittsburgh Press, 2005


...


HAPPY BIRTHDAY



A Friend, William
turned 12 yrs old,  9-20-12
automatically became handsome thereupon

 William is the raccoon editor's peanut gallery pew-mate, and sometimes Wis Guthrie's, on Sundays.
9:30 AM, 1st Congregational UCC, 100 E Broadway, Waukesha
( ALL participants welcome!)

...

A climber



By surprise

This morning we noticed the volunteer morning glory vine
Had reached it’s final extension of something to climb upon
- a tacked-up piece of extending twine -
And during the night in its slow-motion writhing
Had extended it’s free self to the maximum
Took a big sideways reach
And found something to continue its upward movement
So characteristic of improviser Judith who gave us
The plant by surprise;

Climbing, ever climbing
It’s indomitable built-in urge to
Rise
And rise…..in Waukesha


...


NEW WARMING DEVICE AT THE ODD FELLOWS
THROWS DEFINED-RADIUS HEAT FOR TOE-WARMING



Simulatingly boils water for steam in our 1950s vintage
whistling tea kettle with brazed spout from cake pan metal.  Genuine whistle at top 
was once a childhood toy.  Now, 2nd childhood.  ( Perpetual.)

Some friends have gone out to Menard's and invested
in one of these $79.99 heaters.  Joe did.  Uncle Norm did.
The brand is Chimney-Free.
Operates safely on regular house current.



...

Joe Beringer at The cup recently.



David Dix sr, coffee-sipper with Joe, raccoon editor, pictured on William Redding's 12th birthday, 9.20.12
The readers of the SRN, mostly family, repeatedly ask for pictures of how we are now.
Here, we huddle before our electric stove, toasty. on a chilly morning in the Odd Fellows lodge hall
where we live and work.

We are wearing a Salvation Army blanket that was left on our bed in the nursing home where we recovered from our surgery. (2005) Learning how to walk again, use silverware, go to the bathroom on our own, many etcs.  We were incapacitated for almost a full year.
http://raccoonnews.blogspot.com/search?q=silence

That blanket has become something of an icon for us now.  It is secured by a pin-on compass
which we use regularly to keep our bearings, physically and Boy Scout morally straight. (Except we have no rigidities about LGBT's.)

The red T-shirt has an iron-on much washed and faded image of us, carrying in our then recently-deceased mother's dog, Duffy.  He was blind and incontinent but Mom's dying wish was to take care of Duffy, which we did for over a year until he just had to be put down.  Poor little guy........TIME, something to be reckoned with.

...

A teacher asked her 6th grade class how many of them were Romney fans.

Not really knowing what a Romney fan is, but wanting to be liked by the teacher, all the kids raised their hands except for Little Johnny...

The teacher asked Little Johnny why he has decided to be different... Again.

Little Johnny said, "Because I'm not a Romney fan."

The teacher asked, "Why aren't you a fan of Romney?" Johnny said, "Because I'm a Liberal."

The teacher asked him why he's a Liberal. Little Johnny answered, "Well, my Mom's a Liberal and my Dad's a Liberal, so I'm a Liberal."

Annoyed by this answer, the teacher asked, "If your mom was a moron and your dad was an idiot, what would that make you?"

With a big smile, Little Johnny replied, "That would make me a Romney fan."


(Sent by Rev. Dr. Thomas Bentz, now serving an interim in New Jersey)

...

Wisdom from an old Jewish man
Ahhhhh!! the wisdom of the ages.
. 




A female CNN journalist heard about a very old Jewish man who had been going to the Western Wall to pray, twice a day, every day, for a long, long time.

So she went to check it out. She went to the Western Wall and there he was, walking slowly up to the holy site.

She watched him pray and after about 45 minutes, when he turned to leave, using a cane and moving very slowly, she approached him for an interview.

"Pardon me, sir, I'm Rebecca Smith from CNN. What's your name?

"Morris Feinberg," he replied.

"Sir, how long have you been coming to the Western Wall and praying?" 

"For about 60 years."

"60 years! That's amazing! What do you pray for?"

"I pray for peace between the Christians, Jews and the Muslims."

"I pray for all the wars and all the hatred to stop."

"I pray for all our children to grow up safely as responsible adults and to love their fellow man."

"I pray that politicians tell us the truth and put the interests of the people ahead of their own interests."

The Journalist then asked:  "How do you feel after doing this for 60 years?"

"Like I'm talking to a  wall."

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Mike Dix's Extreme Fall; Bucket Lists


Grandson Mike Dix

If you want to be a dave-devil
You gotta start somewhere.
This year-old video is of Mike
still with a lot to learn
but he has been intent on learning it
and he has become more of a master.

He isn't finished yet
though has taken many a spill
as this video suggests.

But Mike is a true Dix
- somewhat foolhardy -
but always read to get
back up and try again.

Watch:

Mike works as a snow board
instructor now at Olympic Village
Delafield
and hopes to go to college.

..............................

This inclusion in the SRN
was stimulated this morning
by a bucket list video
sent by Rev. Dr. Tom Bentz:


Also in our mind is the 
Grand Canyon float trip
mentioned recently by
fellow Jimmy's Grotto
Italian sausage sandwich eater,
Jack Hill, WHS class of 54


..............................

All of Which
points to the sage advice
Uncle Norman Rupnow gave
last Sunday at the Caribou coffee club.
Since 1960,
I've heard Norm utter these words often
but this time I wrote them down
on my NYT Book Review section
at my side.
Norm initialed his nearly timeless finding:


"LIFE IS VERY TRICKY."

Uncle Norm

Thursday, December 20, 2012

Our solstice sun; Caribou reunion; Gyroscopes



OUR SOLSTICE SUN
on the window sill at the Odd fellows
prepares to swing back from the dark
to the light
with vengeful eyes that go left and right
determined no matter what
to mark the lengthening of days ~

There will be welcoming parties
gathered at such places as Aztalan
near Lake Mills WI
where the mystery pyramids 
lie beneath the waves ~

We have been there
to contemplate the meanings of all this, 
beaten drums, shaken rattles, been
overall lovely Pagan.




Click the video:


...............................
Friday, 12-21-12:

We did get a little snow overnight, contrary to other parts of the state where there were inundations.  We awoke to find snow blown against the northwest Odd Fellows windows.  KD Cat was thwarted in hunting the little TV tray birdfeeder on the windowsill by the coverng snow.


So we broke the icy snow frozen against the window so KD would have something to do - not that she's bereft of many toys scattered about - and chipped away the ice and snow.



There.
And that was the extent of the shoveling for us.

Oh yes:  we also chipped away the icy white that was concealing our outside thermometer.



Soon, KD was back at her post, watching for birds.



Tonight we get our son at Mitchell airport, home for Christmas.
Our two week long kitty will meet her brother.  8 months old when we got her, 
she seems much larger now.  Doubtless our NYC son will seem larger too.

When KD leaps at the window, the sparrows scatter, but they may be
grateful for the unburied birdseed.

.........................


Last Sunday,

there was a beautiful Christmas Pageant/Happening at the Congo.  We took many pictures we thought of note, but on reflection decided not to run them on the internet, thanks to the event at Newtown CN.  It was a lovely service which Wis and I witnessed from our pew in the Peanut Gallery.

We were joined by William, who frequently bookends this editor in the Gallery, he on our right, Wis on our left.  Wis, 94; William, 12.  It leaves yours truly in the middle feeling like Moe of the Stooges.  Wise men, Wis (left) and William (right).

William’s twin brothers had parts in the pageant, cracking William up.  He was pretty much engaged in a series of drawn sketches to explain to the editor the birth and death of a star.




Afterwards, Wis Gurhrie and I went out to Caribou Coffee Shop on Bluemound Rd. Brookfield, to reunion with Norman Rupnow who we haven’t seen for quite a while.  We three have been friends since the 1960s at least.

So after doing our usual thing at the Congregational Church and partaking of the Santa Lucia gift exchange there, we headed out  for a spot of coffee with Uncle Norm and the other gentlemen who assemble there every Sunday morning.  See:  http://raccoonnews.blogspot.com/2011/12/my-friends-from-irs.html



It was happily discovered that we could make it out to the Caribou after church and still get in on the fellowship there.




During the conversation, retired IRS agent Paul pretended to examine our P6000 Nikon, sighting through the finder, etc.  We engaged in chat with Wis and Norm, and Paul, ever clandestine, shot a picture of the editor who was engaged mid-sentence, elsewhere.



 ....................................

Received:

Wis Guthrie's annual Christmas letter.  Over the decades, he has opted to use his Grant Wood
American Gothic theme for this letter.  This year, however, after picturing the late Ina with a halo on last year's letter, Wis for the time being took a different tack and drew from his amusement
of a 3 year old girl who as a social gathering studied Wis carefully, and then at an appropriate time she whispered:

You're going to have a baby!

Wis laughed hard, and later took pen in hand and drew Santa having trouble getting down a chimney due to his girth.  In the drawing, the little girl points at Wis who waits to take his turn at the chimney.

The letter reads:

....................

 After Newtown




Imagine the  agonizing underway
Counselors and clerics
Themselves dazed
Trying to assuage, heal others

From what deep well
Can they draw the curing waters?
Here in Waukesha
Our once restorative waters
Are radioactive now

Let us drink the milk of
human kindnesses
found overflowing in our
houses of worship

And treat horror tales
as string wound
Round the axles of
Gyroscopes

Pulled so hard
That forces are released
To hold balance
Even when things are tilted.





Friday, August 20, 2010

WHAT DOES IT ALL MEAN? (Old Uncle Norm saying)

Medium: Liquitex acrylic on a shingle


enlarge for reading





Thursday, November 19, 2009

Three amigos

Emelio Zepata
meets Bentzedrine El Inhaler
Two outlaw types met today at a New Berlin restaurant for a couple of beers, some bacon-wrapped water chestnuts and prolonged conversation, not having seen each other for nearly four years, though the Email has flown back and forth hot and heavy. At the time of that earlier in-person visit, Bentzedrine came to pay a call on the future SRN editor in a convalescent facility where he wasn't expected to leave the place. Not vertically, anyway.
Bentzedrine was then making a pastoral call and brought a book.
Matthew 25 City!
Today he brought a Zapata T shirt.
See how short Zapata appears compared to El Inhaler. Tom was stsanding on a box that he carries around with him to gain advantages where needed.

That shirt and Tom's good offices will probably keep Zepata going another four years, Lord willing. After the three hour visit, we drove up the lonely lane in back of the restaurant to see a recluse friend, Uncle Norman, (http://raccoonnews.blogspot.com/2009/03/uncle-norman.html) And as Bentzedrine was auditioning third amigo Norm, they hit it off instantly, so we stayed another hour talking about surgical operations, train hoists and Ramona CA where Tom just finished an interim pastorate.
Back in WI, Tom is seeking employment based once more upon his doctorate in divinity. His shattered left wrist well enough healed from his daring Mexican vault over a cliff without benefit of wings or horse, El Inhaler is also considering an option in bank robbing (Dismounted,).






Saturday, June 20, 2015

Hunting mushrooms and snails in our little Odd Fellows woods; Crickets (Creekets); Walkin the walk; Ray and Myrt



Just outside our door
here in the heart of the city
there is a small woods.

It is space that has been allowed
to grow wild.
How great it is to pass it
carrying out the trash to the
waiting dumpsters.

Life and death enact themselves
for those who care to look -
peculiar eruptions of spring
and co-obtaining attacks by mushroooms

are left to happen by lack of weeding
(gardening)
or mycological preventions till 
too late.


We cook and eat some mushrooms
thanks to teachings of good cooks.









^,^

And 


SUNNY

Everything about Sunny was colorful:

She lived in beauty, and was beauty
Her walk upon this earth was light,
Her voice was soft, and she was the brightness
Of the dome of stars on a northern cloudless night!
Set your garden sundial by her, and be right.

She did not tread, she glided,
Crushing nothing and no one
In her impish winged rounds
From flower to flower, ‘shroom to ‘shroom
And in her house from room to room
She barely disturbed dust with a broom.

It’s the kind of girl she was, no doubt,
‘tis the way her nature was; naught
But Norm would bawl her out,
And even curmudgeonly he
Had a love of her, choppy and deep
As the sea.

With woodland spirits she had some valuable
Clout!

I used to think she was witchen –
So many odd things were in her kitchen;
divining locations of hidden treats,
vaporizing in the the damp of deep woods weeds
and coming back with edibles
from her known bounds and metes.

She never lost in her labyrinthine heart and mind,
Sunny was honey for Norm’s internment,
A particular grandma who brought discernment
While being extraordinarily – mystically – able
To set great food and such upon her table.

By David Zep Dix 4-9-1999

Her famous quote:
“You’re not going to throw away that perfectly good snake,
are you?”  uttered graciously in Pembine WI 1973
She was given farmer Hertig’s dispatched snake
hanging over a barb wife fence line
and cooked it up for our supper…..


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x-RHRJohyY8

^,^




Gender Studies
by Michael Blumenthal

Listen Online


A cricket chirps in the grass.
Another cricket, all ears,
joins him. Now there are two.
Up above, birds shriek
like drunken gods, the air
is atizzy with the melodrama
of what is about to be.
The two crickets
eye each other
out of the corner
of their cricket eyes.
Each desires something
the other has, each
abhors its own desire.
After a brief silence,
there will be little
cricket mating, a little
cricket love. Soon,
the air will be abuzz
with the sounds
of heavy cricket breathing,
legs rubbing together,
the sound of war in the air
in crickatese,
a subject for specialists.

"Gender Studies" by Michael C. Blumenthal.

....................

Review:

In 1998 the pre-SRN writer ran a series 
called 'Zepata's Adventures'
Synthesizing the famed name
of Mexican Robin Hood-style outlaw 
ZAPATA




Today's Writers Almanac poem
about crickets (above)
reminded us of our prior work
on the subject:

zepata and the creekets

Instalment 6

Creekets in another instalment that may follow


The expected storm arrives
Just before dawn
Zepata and Irena
Pull the tarp down upon them
It was either that or have it blown away
So high were the winds

The red-bandana clad creekets
had long ago retired to
their stow-away saddle bag
and if their legs had been
fine instruments
which in a way they were
the creekets would have put
them away
in velvet-lined music cases;
as it was, to the little mariachi band,
they just blew them off
like smoke from fired
pistols

This weather pattern was a frik
Zepata say to Irena
He nevair see one like
Cyclonic winds seem to blow
Around and around the mountain

A stream-rinsed red union suit
Hanging on a makeshift line blew off
Only to return fifteen minutes later
From the opposite direction
It had traveled around the mountain

Daylight slowly comes
But the rain and crying wind does not let up
El Dayo appears at their active
Bundle of tarp and he sounds
His battle call
Zepata and Irena look out from inside
Their waterproof canvas
Cocoon of rest and love

Raising himself again and again
On his powerful hind legs
Dayo gives a primeval battle cry
At the sky, daring it to strike
Him with lightning
His bulging eyes blazing

Zeus himself might refrain
From hurling a bolt at such a
Dreadnaught
For fear El Dayo would perhaps
catch it
In his frothing gaping mouth
And hurl it back

Zepata calls out to the drenched
Beast:
Issy Boy issy
Go get Mare
We liff in half an hour

Soon Dayo and Mare
stand waiting
And the terrible storm
Relents
Zepata checks the dynamite
Eet is try he proclaims
And with Irena breaks camp

Vowing never to forget that storm
And the jump-started Mexican saviour
Ponders its portent

Now mud is their greatest danger
It is too risky to ride
So Zepata and Irena walk
Beside their mounts
All morning they descend
In this way

In the early afternoon
They discover that the storm
Did not happen at the lower
Altitude
It had been a mountaintop
Electric cyclone only
Like nobody ever saw before

Zepata thinks it must
Have been a sight to see
From down below
And indeed the compadres
Had looked up from their campsite
And thought of Zepata and Irena
And offered prayers
for their safekeeping

The waters that had rushed
Down the mountain
Were torrential
And the air had taken on
A charged crispness
Following the high winds
That had swirled through
The compadres' tentative
repose

Zepata who was a simple Indian
with cause and effect
thought patterns at root
Divined the storm had been
Stirred by the pro-creative
Madness
Exhibited by humans and horses
In the night

After all, he mused
If a little Zepata or Irena
Was being conceived
Or a foal to match or even
Exceed Dayo and Mare's
Powerful exhuberances
Should it not storm?

These were all natural things
To the mind of Zepata
For himself he knew
That the inflammations
Stirred by Irena
and her surfeit of oil
Produced energy that not even
He, ZEPATA, could fully combust
Try as he might

He thought as he watched
Her riding ahead of him:
Here was an exciting fuel
That could never be burned
Completely

Irena possessed a life force
That commenced as female
Gateway of life physiology
That which every woman has
But in Irena's instance
A bellows of only guessed-at origin
Had blown her womanly propensities
Into a conflagration whose
Raging flames licked
The highest clouds and
Changed weather patterns

The Indians knew
The northern lights were caused
By a woman such as this

In the north, it was said,
there was such a woman
And in other parts
Of the world
Rainmakers, storm-causers
Interacting with mighty men
Their powers are released
This is what Zepata believed

How could he not believe it
As he watched Irena's
Buttocks ahead of him
Nudging and shunting
The hand-tooled saddle
He had rubbed to smoothness
himself
And presented to his Real Woman

It must be time for siesta
He mused
Irena felt his eyes upon her
And she smiled without turning



[dzd 7-23-98






^,^



....and again


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_izvAbhExY


^,^



Ray and Myrt



Myrtle and Ray (II) Bringing Cheer to Grandpa

Myrtle, loyal member of The Daughters
Of  The American Revolution and
Something of a family geneologist
Ruled the daily life at 2009 Clay Street
She had a square face and an upright
Posture and she took purposeful steps

She was taller than Ray 
But did not seem so and fortunately
For Ray in those days
The 1930s and 1940s
When I was down there in Cedar Falls Iowa
Taking mental images of them as
My grandparents -
Hats with high crowns were in

So Ray wore his hat alot
He had a few strands of hair
In place over his general baldness
Wore  gold rim glasses
And his trouser legs were baggy
He almost always wore a white shirt
And necktie

And a tie clip from his company
For whom he sold insurance
The Union Central of Cincinnati
His shirt sleeves were always
Held up with rubber bands
Above the elbow

That either was a sign of arms too short
For available sleeve lengths
Or more likely from his days as a
Bank officer and the need - as might have
Been dictated by Grandma - to keep his shirtcuffs
Away from dirty money

Ray was not a dude or a dandy
He kind of dressed like Harry Truman
Straight and unpretentious
And his character and mien were the same
But he liked to behead chickens
At his backyard chopping block
And watch me scream and run

Once a beheaded chicken chased me
Right up the backporch steps
And against my kicking legs as I struggled to
Open the screen door I was
Terrified and embarrassed -
Grandpa Ray was bent over in laughter

That incident and another one
When my mother drove a golf ball
Into my head account
It is said
For my variant thought patterns
And disposition
I also see humor many times
When others do not

Grandma Myrtle used to say
W-H-Y,   R-A-A-Y !!!!
Whenever she thought he was
Acting up like that
And she said it when the bloody chicken
 chased me
Gathering me in her ever-present apron

Mostly Ray was given to black moods
And I never knew why until many years later
When my Uncle Lee told me
That once when Ray was out driving his
Rural insurance rounds
He struck and killed a little girl

Although it was well documented
That the child darted out in front of
Grandpa without sufficient warning
For him to do anything but hit her
And it was pronounced not his fault
Ray never forgave himself

The farmers who he served faithfully
And blessedly when during the
Depression he went around and made
Them aware they did have money afterall;
They had the cash value they could
Borrow against the life insurance
He had sold them
The farmers tried to uplift Ray

The man who delivered the goods for them
When they were down
The farmers his friends and clients tried to uplift Ray
All I ever knew until years later
Was that Grandpa seemed very serious
Most of the time
Unless something like a dead chicken
Briefly lifted his spirits

It would have been good to know

And understand

[DZD, 1998]





Cedar Falls Iowa

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